One of the more uncomfortable questions I get asked is whether I’d “take a look” as someone’s comic.  Now don’t get me wrong, I LOVE looking at new stuff. I love seeing how people go about developing their styles.  I thoroughly enjoy watching artists navigate hurdles and grow.  So PLEASE send me stuff to look at.  I’d be honor.  Just don’t expect a response.  Here’s why:

The problem is, people who ask you to look usually want feedback.  They want to know what I think.  That’s where the squirming begins.

I honestly don’t feel all that qualified to determine if someone’s work is worthy of “comic stardom” or not.  I don’t feel that I’ve crossed any land marks in my career that make me an authority. PLUS, I’m a firm believe of the old saying “opinions are like asshole… etc etc.”

The funny thing is that I’m guilty of the same thing that makes me squirm.  Oh yes, I’ve asked for artists opinions. But I learned the hard way.  Good example:  Early on, I sent my strip out to cartoonists I’ve admired asking “what they thought.”  My expectation on the interchange between me, the fledgling artist and the weather comic professional was very low.  But let’s face it…a majority of the successful cartoonists out there are bung holes.  I don’t think they MEAN to be bung holes.  They’ve just spent so much time at their Cintiqs and drawing boards that they’ve lost the skills required to hold a decent conversation.

Dear cartoonist: Don’t get offended when I say this.  More than likely, you don’t fall into that category.  But in the grand scheme of things there are roughly more cartoonists on the web than there are Chinese citizens.  Chances are fairly good that a lot of them are jerks.

I can remember one occasion where I sent a few samples of 44UA to a syndicated cartoonist who I admired very much.  In the e-mail I expressed my undying devotion to his work and explained that I too was a cartoonist attempting to get in “the biz” (yes, I said “the biz”…can you tell I’m cringing right now?).  In my message I simply said “take a look and let me know if you like it.”

Now I would’ve been satisfied with a simple “I like it” or “it sucks dog balls.”  Both are plain, simple answers that sum his opinion up quite nicely.

Did I get that response?  Negative, Ghost Rider.

What I did get was a thorough dress-down of my strip from the poor choice of font to the predictability of the line-work (I still have no freakin’ clue what that means)to the awful characters (ouch) to the downright over-done story content and unoriginal humor. It was like standing in front of Mike Tyson and letting him punch me repeatedly in the balls.

It took me weeks to recover.  I felt demoralized.  I felt stripped of my creativity.  PLUS, I never picked up another copy of that bung hole’s comic strip.  And that’s when it hit me…

Why should we as artists, cartoonists, musicians, jugglers, WHATEVER… let ANYONE else tell us what is great, funny, beautiful, touching, etc?  It’s a travesty that one person’s opinions have the ability to totally ruin someone else’s day.

So I say this:  Please send me your work.  I’d love to read it.  Don’t expect a detailed response.  It comes down to this.  If it makes YOU happy, who gives a shit what anyone else thinks.